This last Sunday night, my hot wife and I implemented our Weekly Game Plan Strategy again. (I’ve entitled it that… she usually just rolls her eyes and grabs her planner. Haha!) 

It’s been awhile since we’ve needed to do it. It’s been a long “spring-break.”  We were already exhausted by the end of that Sunday and my ***-hole tone of voice rang through my bride's ears like an Alanis Morissette song.

Every Sunday for the last few years, we’ve been game-planning the week. (Again- my words… it must be the coach in me.) The Game Plan helps us avoid unnecessary frustrations, arguments and surprises. The Game Plan helps us to find opportunities for rest, dates, family dinners, and time with our kids.

We have:

4 kids. 

4 Different Grade Levels

3 Locations.

Multiple Teams (Sports, Business and Church-Related)

+ COVID 

+ Growing a Business

Next week, I’m going to work on having a better tone of voice… but this week, I wanted to share the Game Plan with you. 

Our mission is help leaders love Life at Work and love Life at Home. It’s a constant challenge because disruptions are never-ending, but we can’t let disruptions dictate our quality of life and family.

Here’s our Weekly Strategy Game Plan:

Each spouse gathers their relevant weekly schedule, meetings, appointments, plans, etc… We pull out the kids' schedules. Then plan out each day before Monday morning arrives. (We usually try to plan a couple weeks out and sometimes the month— BUT at least, the coming week.)

• Who drops off who - when and where.

• Who picks up who - when and where.

• Will any meetings get in the way of the routine? (Work through that TOGETHER- and by that I mean, work out conflicts together.)

• When are you going to enjoy a date?

• What are you going to plan for meals?

• Who’s working where?

• Have kids pack their lunches and get their sports bags together.

• If trips are coming up in the next two to four weeks- go ahead and remind one another about those plans.

Frustration and anxiety creep in when we are surprised. Take the time to plan your weeks together and avoid the miscommunication pitfalls. Then, review daily because people forget and life happens.

What do you do at home to make sure you and your spouse are ready to enjoy the week?

Lead intentionally, so you can love Life at Home and love Life at Work.